Posts by BT Humble

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Need advice from people with a JW partner

by sass_my_frass in

hi, i'll sum up: recently disfellowshipped, and am marrying my love, who is not a witness.

i'm jumping through the hoops to get reinstated (to get my family back, and then do the slow fade) but am going to review that choice as time goes by as i choose him as my new life, not them.

however right now i think that life will be better, long term, if i can pick up the phone and talk to my family, every now and then.

BT Humble

I want to show my man off, he's magnificent.

Ah, my Beloved. We really need to get you some new glasses!

(After the wedding, of course!)

BTH

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relationship with jw's

by clay in

i stumbled upon this site while looking for help.

my prob is there's this girl i really really like alot.

she's beautiful,smart, has a great personality and i love being around her.

were not dating , just talking. but i would love to get her to leave her society. my dad is a evangelist and he is backing me 100% on trying to get her to leave. i know the road will be rough but i want to atleast try. Dear Clay, If you like this girl, why is your first thought "I must change her"? That's not a healthy way to start a relationship, in my opinion. If she wants to leave the organisation, she'll do it when SHE is ready, not when YOU are. You're probably tired of people telling you this, but you're still young. Take some more time to get to know her, then take some time to get to know other girls who are already within your own congregation/church/neighbourhood/city/country/planet, so that you can get some perspective. (Note that when I say "get to know" I don't necessarily mean "date" or "start a relationship with". It's perfectly possible for men and women to be friends, even if most Western societies don't seem to believe it). You won't get to know how big the world is unless you go and look at it. And remember, just because I'm free to express my opinion doesn't mean that I'm right. BTH (sass_my_frass's guy)